‘In my eyes I am not disabled… My disability is a label given to me by society, though invisible to myself. I see pride, passion, and power as the elements of a successful being. People say there is no such thing as an equaliser. But I disagree, as sex is something everyone yearns for – it is a social freedom. Everything is possible and nothing is normal!
The title of the photograph is so appropriate because, like the Little Mermaid, I am searching for freedom and things unknown. Hopefully, with the characteristics I possess, I will find these. Like the little mermaid wanted love, I too yearn for that. I have been so close on numerous occasions. But as I have to stand up at some point (and use my crutches to walk), once I have met a man and they are forced to realise I am disabled, they seem to become somewhat scared. I am also responsible to a degree for my lack of an intimate relationship because of my independent streak – I don’t need or want a carer, so I don’t often allow myself to become intimately involved for fear that one day my partner may feel obliged to take care of my personal requirements.’
DENISE BECKWITH, Sydney NSW Australia, 2000
Denise is a Sydney 2000 Paralympian Swimmer. She is currently studying when she doesn’t have speaking engagements! Denise has Cerebral Palsy.