“Make-up is important. It helps to define and express my femininity. I try to find the right balance. I try for understatement and a light touch. I least like how I look in profile. It’s not about vanity or self-loathing. It’s about shaping oneself, inside and out, into the very best conduit one can be for the grace and wonder of Being. It’s a juggling act between change and acceptance.”
– Paula Kaye 2003